OUTLINE
0:00 Introduction — Exploring Your Rich Girl Identity
1:30 Why Identifying Your Money Personality Makes Decisions Easier
3:11 The Sacred Receiver — Wealth Through Alignment
6:22 The Lux Minimalist — Simplicity, Structure & Intention
10:08 The Free Spirited Creator — Bold, Creative & Free
14:00 Blind Spots & Self-Sabotage for Each Identity
18:25 How to Mix and Match Identities for Your Own Rich Girl Life
21:09 The Power of Deciding — Start Embodying Your Rich Girl Identity Now
24:40 Where to Get the Free Quiz & Further Resources
26:50 Final Thoughts and Invitation to Connect
THE ERIN DAVIS SHOW
Welcome to another week of the Erin Davis podcast. We are talking this week about exploring your rich girl identity, because I know when you are able to step into that new identity, decisions are easier. Things seem to fall into place, and they seem to happen when you have a clear picture of who it is you want to be and where you want to go. Now, I am all for manifesting, though I am also very big on actually taking some action. And so this week, I really want to go through those rich girl identities, because when you get very clear on what's important to you, what's not important to you, how do you like to work? What is it that you need? As I said, it makes decisions even easier, and things seem to fall into place. So let's get started.
I think that when you start to look at how you operate, what feels good for you, what feels aligned. Everything seems to flow. And I have created three rich girl identities. They are the sacred receiver, the Lux minimalist and the free spirited creator. And I have a PDF handout for you, so you can take the quiz, and you can have a look, and you can see what it is that actually works for you, because I know that when you really, really just lean into what those identities look like, I know it is going to make things easier for you, so you can grab that at www.erindavis.com.au/groundedrichgirl and you can take the quiz, and then you can see what identity you are stepping into. But I thought I would just roll through them and give you an idea of what they look like.
Now the sacred receiver. She is the woman who wants wealth through alignment. She really wants to tap into that inner wisdom, that inner intuition, and just trust herself. She is the woman who likes to operate in flow and doesn't like to force things. So that's really important to know, because if you are in a space of always forcing things and always, you know, second guessing yourself, it is going to feel really clunky and really messy, which then is not going to make you feel good. And all of this stuff with money is about, how do we create a situation where you can show up as your best self, and you can just step into this space without money being so heavy and uncomfortable and worrying that you know that pressure just disappears? And so the sacred receiver, she really loves to meet abundance. She comes at this beautiful flow. She's open to receive, and she's also very giving, but she is very, very deeply connected to her purpose. And she has this thing where she just trusts the divine timing. This is such an important thing. She is not under any pressure. She doesn't put the expectation on to make things happen. She just allows for them to happen, which is such a beautiful space to be in, because when you take that pressure off and you take the heaviness and the weight away from what it is you are doing, you are able to just show up. There is a totally different energy, energy associated with it, and I guarantee you that life will just start to flow when you can step into being the sacred receiver.
But maybe you are more like the Lux minimalist. Now this woman is the queen of simplicity. She is simple, yet she is elegant. She loves beautifully coloured spreadsheets. She loves to be organised. She knows exactly where her money goes. She just really embraces this rich, grounded life. She doesn't need a flashy life to feel rich, but she's timeless, and she is building wealth with intention. She's elegant, she's clear about what matters, and she's focused. And I think that this woman is like the quiet one. She's the one that just gets on with it. She's not the flashy person that needs to tell everybody that she's wealthy, yet she feels so grounded within herself that she just knows what she wants and she. Is just able to create it and make it happen.
And the last one is the free spirited creator. Now this woman is bold and she's creative, and she is just that real creative woman, but she's not reckless. So there's a difference there with being free spirited and creative and reckless. She loves freedom, and she loves to have fun. She knows how to make wealth work for her, and she's not afraid to spend on experiences like she's this woman who is just free spirited at life. She's very spontaneous, but she's also very savvy, and she has this knack for making money. She doesn't need a normal path to create wealth, because she is really doing it her own way. And this is such a, you know, beautiful way to live, because, again, it is out of the space where you need to have the expectation. You you just allow things to flow, and you are in this really just, you know, money is meant to support you, it's not limiting you and and you know, this is such a beautiful space to be in, but with all of these identities, there are some blind spots, and it is easy to get caught up in the space of well, this is just who I who I want to be, and we just go forward and we don't even think about it.
I also want you to think about what are the blind spots that are attached to these new identities for the sacred receiver. Now remember, she is the woman who wants alignment. She wants you know, intuition. She wants inner trust. She wants to be deeply connected to her purpose. Now she may wait far too long for signs or the alignment to happen and to feel good before she actually takes action. And so this can lead to missed opportunities. She needs to act when it feels right. But it's about not holding yourself back and not just waiting all the time, you know, making sure that sometimes you need to have that courage and you need to take steps forward. She also avoids, you know, really practical things like budgeting and planning and investing and taxes, because, you know, these can be pretty boring, and they can put them up, put it off, because, you know, she really just wants to feel abundant. But even though these things can make her feel abundant, they can feel quite heavy for her. So just be aware of it. But she also may have very leaky boundaries, because she is a super generous woman, she wants to stay open to receiving, which can lead to over giving, under charging or letting others cross her money boundaries. So be careful about where those money leaks are happening.
Now the Lux minimalist now remembers she wants to feel wealthy when her life or she feels wealthy when her life is spacious and beautiful and intentional. But her blind spots are that her love of structure can make her feel very rigid, and it can make spontaneous decisions, or spontaneity feel really hard and threatening, because money is something that she needs to control tightly, so that freedom can feel unsafe, even when it feels aligned. Now she may also avoid taking risks or stepping into new income streams because they feel chaotic or uncertain, even if they hold real potential for growth. So this can really limit your expansion. She wants to keep things simple, but this can unknowingly really limit just how much she allows herself to receive, because having more might seem overwhelming or overindulgent. The free spirited creator, you know, remember, she's, she's of the opinion that money is meant to support her in her life and create joy. It's not meant to limit her, but her blind spots can be that this is real in inconsistent systems and resisting structure that she has or routine can really lead to that feast or famine cycle. She can be very disorganised or feel like there's financial anxiety in the background because it's feast or famine, and she may track her income in bursts, but may feel that, you know, avoiding that that deeper financial planning and understanding or investment or strategy is just too much, because that's going to kill her free spirited vibe, and we don't want that. And she may be saying yes to everything because it's fun and forget about.
The rest you know that budget, budgeting is for downtime or to build in that long term support, which is just something that you know kills a vibe and she really doesn't want to do it. So these rich girl identities are just a guide. They are a place for you to be able to really draw on the aspects that feel aligned to you, and you know what, you can create your own version of a grounded rich girl. You can take bits and pieces of each of these three identities and create something that feels aligned for you. But you know what? You don't actually have to wait until you're rich to step into this identity. We can actually make the decision right now that this is what we're going to do. This is how we're going to be. We don't need to wait to feel the emotion or to feel rich to start acting like rich. We can start to take on some of these identities right now. We don't need to wait. So we can create this reality. We can create this persona of who we want to be, how we want to show up, what we want to do, how we want to take care of ourselves, how we want to present ourselves to the world, how we want to look after money, and then how we expect money to look after us. We can decide that right now instead of waiting. And that is a really powerful thing to do, because we don't need the actual event to happen like that, cause and effect. We can have the effect now and then create the cause. And so what I want you to do is really just lean into what is it that feels good for you? What does being a rich girl look like? How does she behave? How does she move? How does she show up in the world? You know, what is her identity and what is important to her? Because when we can start to embody that new rich girl feeling, then we can start to create what it is that we want around us. Decisions start to fall in alignment with that new rich girl identity. We can start to create our rituals. We can start to build our money confidence and start making decisions as if we are already that rich girl. We don't need to wait for her to be rich in order to start acting rich.
So that's the challenge for today. Have a look at those identities. Figure out what it is that you want if you need some help, remember to go to www.erindavis.com.au/groundedrichgirl And download your little quiz there that can help you to decide or help you to lean into what it is that you want that grounded rich girl life to look like. Because, as I said, once you do, I know that decisions are going to be easier. You know, we're allowed to create whatever it is that we want. We are the ones that are stopping us from creating that. So it's time to get out of our own way. Time to put those emotions aside and just allow ourselves to dream big and dream and think about what it is that we want and how we want to behave, because there's no reason why we can't do that now, nobody's stopping us, except ourselves. And when you can start to embrace that, even if it feels really weird and uncomfortable and messy, you know, there's nobody stopping you from becoming that now, so practice, step into it, decide what it is you want and actually make it happen, because the decision to do it is such a huge thing. Let me know how you go. I would be curious to see what your rich girl identities are, and I really want to see you living it, because life is too short. Stop waiting around for things to be different. Actually go out there and create it. So this is your permission slip. Go and create your rich girl identity and start living it. Because you are her already. You just need to own it.
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